Considering an independent living community

Do you dream about simplifying your life? Wish you could spend less time on to-dos and more time engaged in new interests? An independent living community might represent that dream come true. Consider these perks: home maintenance and landscaping cared for, meals prepared, and plentiful opportunities for socializing.

Why choose independent living?
Many people move to independent living to downsize from a now-too-large home, or to relocate to a quieter neighborhood and do less driving. Some people seek relief from decades of cooking and cleaning. Another big draw is having a built-in community and activities, from book clubs to seminars to fitness centers. Life is more predictable, too, with a contract that specifies your all-inclusive monthly outlay.

How to evaluate one community versus another
Perhaps you've narrowed the field to a few options in the same area. But which would be the best fit for you? Compare services side by side. Here's what to consider:

• Amenities. Make a must-have list of what suits your lifestyle. Do you need a pool? A library? A garden? Are overnight guests and children allowed? What technology is included? Is there a spiritual focus? What kinds of meals and meal plans are involved?
• Community. Visit during a social event to experience the atmosphere. Stay overnight to really test it out. Does it feel welcoming, or too quiet? Make multiple random visits, and ask to stay for lunch or dinner (marketing usually has a budget for a one-time meal). The residents are living your future! Ask what they like and what they wish they had known before moving in. Is there a residents' council and other avenues for residents' input?
• Staff. Pay attention to how the staff interacts with residents. Are they attentive, friendly, and professional? This makes a huge difference in your daily experience.
• Location. Would you be close to frequented spots, such as favorite stores or doctor's office? What about proximity to friends and family? Find out what transportation is provided.
• Finances. These are typically rental communities. Check what's included in monthly fees and the community's financial health. Learn the history of fee increases. Avoid surprises: Take home and study all the rules, fees, and contracts.
• Legal review. Ideally, have an elderlaw attorney look over your contract. Know your options for leaving if you wish to move for any future reason.

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